Why the fuck are you in a relationship/married to a military service member if you cannot trust them while they are away or even daily around? Especially the ones who don’t even have a reason to be insecure about their men doing anything foolish, what’s the point of complaining?……. I understand you may love them but do you like being miserable?!! Because it sure sounds that way since you aren’t making any choices to change things. These relationships take lot more patients and communication and understanding than most. Without these things, your relationship will crash and burn. Distance is ALWAYS going to come between you and your SO in this type of life. There will ALWAYS be times you will have to go a bit without speaking. IT DOESNT ALWAYS MEAN YOUR MEN ARE CHEATING! In some cases, yes they may.. Those kinds…Leave. No more said. But if you’re going to whine all over the net about how much you don’t fully trust them, then make a fucking choice for YOURSELF. >_> UGH. It’s not healthy and unless you change that state of mind or circumstance/situation, you’ll never be content nor happy with yourself or what you’re in. This type of relationship isn’t easy and NEVER will. But it definitely takes two strong individuals to keep it going. I’m not saying that just because you may have some insecurities to leave your man but trust is a huge part of these types. You NEED trust. If it’s completely gone and you cannot fix it, walk away so you can find happiness else where. It’s not the easiest choice but it’s your life to live and if you wanna continue to live and be in a relationship that make you miserable, you’re never going to be happy. More fucking power to you. 👌 GTFO the net.
I just think.. MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY. YOUR HAPPINESS MATTERS TOO!